Family Security Playbook

Something just happened? Start here.

Take a breath. Acting in the first hour helps the most, and you don't have to do it all at once. Pick what happened.

Is someone on the phone, or in your computer, right now? Hang up, or turn the computer off. A real bank, government office or tech company will understand. Then call back on a number you already trust: the one on the back of your card, on a statement, or on the company's own website.

Write it down now, while it's fresh. Feeling shaken is normal, and stress makes anyone's memory less reliable: within hours, times blur and details get mixed up. It's why professionals write an after-action report straight away. Your bank, the police and the FTC will all ask the same questions: when it happened, what they said, how you paid and who you've called. A written record helps you remember, and makes every one of those calls easier. Open the free record sheet: it walks you through it step by step, then prints or saves a copy. It stays on your device.

Who to call and where to report

Watch for the second scam. After a scam, people often get calls offering to get the money back, for a fee, or from someone "from the FTC" or "the FBI." Those are scammers too. Real agencies never charge to help, and never ask you to pay with gift cards, a wire or cryptocurrency.

When this is over: have the plan ready for next time

A Family Security Playbook puts these steps on paper before you need them: who to call, your banks' real numbers, and what to do for each kind of scam, in large print for the fridge or the desk drawer.

See the playbook, from $39 Free one-page card (PDF)

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This page is general information to help you act quickly. It isn't legal or financial advice, and following it can't guarantee money comes back. Last checked October 2026.